So, i got my paragard about a month ago. i JUST felt the strings 2 days ago, and last night, while my fiance was touching down there, he noticed he didnt feel any strings. so, then i propped myself up, and tried myself. my cervix is open, and i cant feel a THING. i would think if it was lodged up there, i would feel some sort of discomfort, but, i dont. i dont know if maybe sex pushed it up, or if i randomly LOST my iud? i'm going to try checking again, and calling the doctor after lunch. i'm mildly freaking out, only because i had unprotected sex last night, well, besides the iud that may or may not be there anymore :/ has this ever happened to anyone else? what ended up happening? thank you for any help!